Showing posts with label birthdays. Show all posts
Showing posts with label birthdays. Show all posts

Sunday, 15 January 2017

New York, New York...

This is a very belated post because this trip was a last birthday fling at the end of September! But in the interests of completeness, and because 2016 was in so many ways a very depressing year, it feels important to remember the special good times too.

New York had been on my wish list of places to go for a while but I wasn't entirely sure what I would make of it. I thought perhaps I would feel I had ticked it off the list but in fact I sort of fell in love with it! It is mad and busy and noisy but has a buzz about it that is infectious. And in a week we only really scratched the surface of what NYC has to offer and I find myself thinking I want to go again.

From the point you arrive in New York City there is a sense of familiarity. I hadn't registered how many of the landmarks are such frequently seen images that it feels a bit like deja vu. The grandeur of Grand Central Station (blurry because the light was surprisingly poor and everyone was speeding around!)...


And as we walked our first glimpse of the beautiful Chrysler building...


The crazy, oppressive, claustrophobic madness of Times Square...


and Broadway...


...which is a much longer street than I had imagined. Central Park is an oasis of green in the centre of the city - a lovely well used space with different areas to walk, exercise, and just chill...


Our first day it poured and we took refuge in a little coffee shop on the street corner. Looking out onto yellow cabs and a school bus waiting at the end of the block. What could be more typical of a NYC scene?!


We took  in the Guggenheim exhibition and the Metropolitan Museum of Modern Art - did you read about the gold toilet exhibit?! We opted NOT to queue for our opportunity to spend 3 minutes enthroned on a working gold work of art!!

Almost obligatory is a trip to the top of the Empire State Building - we opted to go at night and the sheer scale of the spread and density of urban lighting was quite breathtaking...




I think the Chrysler is my favourite building - so pretty at night...


Liberty and the stars and stripes are very much in evidence, particularly in the financial district where the 911 memorial exhibition is both moving and overwhelming... 





I was glad to come back out into the sunlight for a walk across the Brooklyn Bridge...



It was so hot that day it was lovely to find some peaceful shade in a park in Brooklyn before getting the ferry back.


A visit to Ellis Island via the Statue of Liberty was a must of course...



There were many highlights (and I took hundreds of photos so it is difficult to limit it to a few!) but the 'sun and stars' tickets for the 'Top of the Rock" were definitely worth paying for and certainly a highlight of the trip. This enabled us to go up the Rockefeller building twice, during the day and at sunset. We opted to go early (to the ticket sales girl's surprise!) and were up at the top in early morning light at 8.30am when there were only a couple of other people up there.


It was a beautiful day and it was surprisingly peaceful up there with amazing views over Manhattan...


...with the familiar rectangle of Central Park clearly visible...



It certainly wasn't peaceful in the evening, with people crammed like sardines on the top of the building, but the sun setting over Manhattan was spectacular...


A lot of work has been done to regenerate areas of NYC, not least Central Park, which had a distinctly unsavoury reputation at one stage but now feels safe and clean. The High Line park is another - a repurposed rail track threading its way through the cityscape, created from materials in keeping with its origins and surroundings. It was a lovely walk above the streets and really rather beautiful...


Back in downtown Manhattan we just had to take in the blinding sparkle of Tiffany's on 5th Avenue (we snuck a little snack in so we could say we had Breakfast at Tiffany's 😄)...


...and I quite liked these flags against the towering buildings and blue sky...


Compared to the UK there is not much truly 'old' in Manhattan (lets face it I live in a house built in 1500 or so - not sure there is anything in NYC that dates back that far!)  but there are some lovely buildings. I liked the contrast of this church with the modernity of the glass fronts opposite...


In the art museum we were taken with some shadow paintings so did our own bit of shadow 'art' afterwards... 😂


...before going for champagne and truffles in Macy's, then a show on Broadway. There was so much to choose from but we went with the long running Fiddler on the Roof in the end, which was amazing.


On our last day we were a bit exhausted by all the bustle but even in the midst of the city there are glorious places to just sit and read or people watch or just be. Bryant Park was a late find, just a short way off 5th Avenue is this little oasis of a community park, with people playing chess, a reading corner, table tennis, a piano playing...  All around the park were different gentle activities going on and it had a lovely atmosphere and was a great place to spend a peaceful couple of hours before heading for the airport.



...with one last glance at the Chrysler before we went...


New York City certainly didn't disappoint. It is frenetic and full on - Sinatra's 'city that never sleeps' but I loved it and it was a great place to shake off any remaining blues about being 50!

S x

Thursday, 8 September 2016

Where does the time go?

Glancing through these pages after a woefully long absence, I realised that I have to change my bio on this page - no longer a '40-something'... And for those who sent me such kind comments after my last (I realise rereading it, rather miserable!) post - I am ok, just adjusting and realising that adjustment is probably a life long process.

Its fair to say I hadn't relished the thought of turning 50. I have very clear recollections of thinking that was ancient and even though the nearer you get you realise that definitely isn't the case, it's also no good kidding yourself that you are 'young' anymore either! However, several months past and I'm not sure I feel any different than I did 20 years ago really... I still have the same fears, joys and passions as I ever did and probably some of the same insecurities too. But I also know that I have a greater confidence in my own abilities and weaknesses and am better at accepting that I need to be accepted for who I am not who I think I should be.

I am not a big socialite. I have a few special and precious friends who 'get' me and understand that to be a bit on the introverted side is not to be antisocial. For the week of my birthday in June I spent a lovely few days in the hills, enjoying fabulous scenery, lovely food and easy company.

This was the lovely view from the window of our hotel room in Portinscale, Derwentwater just behind the trees...

Beautiful early evening walk down to Keswick, I think Skiddaw on the right...


The sun just beginning to set over Derwentwater...


Gorgeous skies...





The next morning dawned a bit cloudy but, determined not to be put off, we set off from the hotel towards Newland Valley, through beautiful lush green landscape, the advantage of plenty of rainfall!



The path took us across the back of Catbells, a peak I have walked several times, but from this angle we avoided the most crowded popular ascent path and had stunning views back across the valley with Bassenthwaite Lake just visible in the distance...



Looking across Catbells, Derwentwater on the right, Bassenthwaite on the left...






Even in cloud, there is a sense of awe in the scale of the hills here - they are not huge mountains as such but the amount of space that remains largely untouched is clear and beautiful


We walked a good distance, across Maiden Moor and up onto High Spy before dropping down into Borrowdale to Rosthwaite. We certainly knew we had stretched our legs (there's not much preparation for up and down in Norfolk!) and enjoyed the fabulous food at the hotel - the most amazing sticky toffee pudding and homemade ice-cream I've ever had...


The following day I was woken with this...


...and the lovely people at the hotel made us a special breakfast with Bucks Fizz and a card, which set us up for another walk, this time at Buttermere, which must one of my favourite lakes. We had thought of climbing up onto Haystacks but the cloud was pretty low and rain not far away so we did the lakeside walk. Where the path was more of a small stream...


But the lake was peaceful and atmospheric...



And the coffee in the pretty cafe a welcome stop at the end...


My friend had arranged a special treat that evening with dinner at Lyzzick Hall Hotel, not far from Keswick and with stunning views across the mountains...


Elegant, if slightly faded, luxury...


and beautiful as well as delicious food...



It was a lovely and memorable day, spent with one of my closest friends.

Next leg of the trip was across to York so we took in a bit of Beatrix Potter, as this year is the 150th anniversary of her birth and a number of exhibitions on to celebrate, in pretty (but crowded!) Hawkshead and Hill Top... 




but also at Allan Bank, Grasmere, an unusual National Trust property inasmuch as it is largely unrestored with public access to space to write, paint, think and dream. You can see why the huge picture windows framing beautiful views must have inspired the likes of Beatrix Potter and Wordsworth who also lived here for a time...






End of June was foxglove season and there were swathes of these upright pink blooms everywhere...





York was part work and part pleasure, much of it too special and personal to share here - suffice to see it was a week I will remember, with the best G&T...


Different, but equally lovely, walking...



and more beautiful food in the company of people I love dearly...


And if that wasn't enough...back home to my boys, determined not to let the birthday go by discreetly!



I am very lucky to be surrounded by such lovely people. Maybe 50 is not so bad after all!

S x